Events Don’t Transform, Commitment Does: Men’s Transformation

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What's an event? Well, I do events all over North America. I do events for men, I do events for couples with my wife and leadership events for pastors, promise keeper rallies, there are events. Many of you men have been to a lot of different events. I like to say sometimes I think in our culture we have a tendency to event people to death because events by themselves don't transform.

What they do do is they bring about awareness. I go to an event and I am aware that something needs to change. My wedding was an event, it was not a marriage. We men wish it were that easy, but it doesn't work that way. It's a process that takes time in order for that to work the right way.

So an event brings about awareness and then I make a decision, by golly, I'm gonna do this. Well, if you look up the difference between decision and commitment, it is huge. More of the Men on Target series with Vince Dacchioli at otm.co.