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thankful-heart-a_std_t_nvThis Thanksgiving season marks the five-year Anniversary of Cindy’s miraculous recovery

It was one of those unforgettable moments. I was driving to the hospital on my way to visit Cindy. I remember entering into a period of intense whining. I am a good whiner—some might say even a professional. It was during a particularly dark time in this lengthy ordeal with my beautiful wife’s life-threatening illness. In the midst of my complaining He spoke. It was a tender voice that I knew immediately was my precious Lord. He said, Vince do you have anything in your life for which you are thankful?

Talk about a change of thought process and direction. I knew this was from our wonderful Savior—the very Person who holds all of our circumstances in the palm of His hand. I immediately went into a chorus of things I was thankful for—here is a partial list as best as I can remember:

I thank you Lord for:

  • The special relationship Cindy and I, along with our extended family, have with 
each other and with you
  • For two of the best daughters any dad could ever have
  • Son-in-laws that love you and extend that love to our daughters and six very 
special grandchildren
  • How you are watching over us and extending a supernatural sense of peace 
through this struggle
  • The myriad of friends who have, are, and will continue praying for Cindy through 
this difficulty
  • The unusual sacrificial giving we have experienced and that our future in this area 
is truly in your hands
  • The special future you have already planned for us
  • Your incredible outpouring through the ministry you have given Cindy and me 
and the tens of thousands of lives that have been impacted
  • Who you are—the GREAT I AM

I am persuaded that one of the very special and pleasing things our Lord experiences happens when we thank Him in the midst of our greatest struggles. 
It is a powerful demonstration of taking our focus off of our own pain and letting Him know how much we love Him. It is not always easy, however. The flesh is very powerful and the enemy of our soul is always right there telling us what a victim we are and how God really isn’t around to help.

Dear friends please allow me to challenge you during this special season. Ask God to help you see your struggles through His eyes. Sometimes the best way to do that is to make a list and begin to recite those things in your life that you are thankful for. I know that some times it is hard to see them through the pain but you must. Trust me on this—it is impossible to thank God for your blessings and whine at the same time—I know—I tried it.

In my morning devotionals I came across this poignant reminder from Streams In The Desert:

Wait in quiet patience. Never complain about what you believe to be the cause of your problems, as the children of Israel did against Moses. Accept your situation exactly as it is and then simply place it with your whole heart into the hand of your covenant God. And while removing any self-will, say to Him, “Lord, ‘Not my will, but yours be done’ [Lk 22:42]. I do not know what to do, and I am in great need. But I will wait until You divide the flood before me or drive back my enemies. I will wait even if You keep me here many days, for my heart is fixed on You alone, dear Lord. And my spirit will wait for You with full confidence that You will still be my joy and my salvation, ‘for you have been my refuge, [and] a strong tower against the foe’ [Ps 61:3].” from Morning by Morning 

I want to close with my favorite verse, 2Chr. 5:13 The trumpeters and singers joined in unison, as with one voice, to give praise and thanks to the LORD. Accompanied by trumpets, cymbals and other instruments, they raised their voices in praise to the LORD and sang: "He is good; his love endures forever." Then the temple of the LORD was filled with a cloud… 

What a powerful and beautiful picture of how our heavenly Father literally enters the temple as the result of our praise and thankfulness. Dear ones, remember that Jesus came and died for you and me. When He left the Bible says the temple curtain was rent. This now means He literally comes into our very being—WOW!

Cindy and I are so thankful for all of you. May the Lord richly bless you during this Thanksgiving season.

UntitledWhen we go in the wrong direction it sometimes feels right and easy—however, the road back can become very steep.

You will recall last month that I wrote to you about my experience with God during a recent silent retreat. The title was, He called me Vinnie. Well, exactly one month to the day later I had another precious encounter with our Lord while attending my second retreat on the very same mountain. Let me share my experience:

Upon arrival at this wonderful and breathtakingly beautiful property on the local mountains outside of Colorado Springs, I and a group of about ten of my men from our local OTI settled in for a brief orientation from our host. After our opening meeting and instruction we all separated and headed out to different locations around the property to begin about 5 hours of complete silence. It is a time to pray, read God’s Word, search our hearts and hear from God. 

As I left the main building I remember thinking that I wanted to try a different direction then the last time I was here. So, I started down a long and winding path to find my perfect spot to meet with the Author and Finisher of my faith. Well, it was a long and very steep downhill trek. I remember thinking, I am going to have to go back this way and it is going to be a steep uphill hike. When I reached the bottom, it was a dead end.

UphillWell, I am one that can attest to what happens when you reach a dead end, when you go in a direction of your choosing and not necessarily the one God would have directed. The journey back can be a long uphill road, and it was. So, my first experience on this day was a reminder of how important it is to make sure God is directing you and that you are not going on in your own flesh.

At the top of the hill and out of breath, I began searching for a good place to camp out and have my quiet time. As I came close to the place I found on my last trip here I found a nice clearing on the side of a hill. It looked and felt right so I put down my backpack chair and sat down to begin with some reading. I read several devotionals and pulled out some thoughts that hit me. The first was out of Streams In The Desert. 

Above all, remember—when God hides His face from you, do not say that He has forgotten you. He is simply waiting for a little while to make you love Him more. And once He comes, you will rejoice with the inexpressible “joy of the LORD” (Ne 8:10). Waiting on Him exercises your gift of grace and tests your faith. Therefore continue to wait in hope, for although the promise may linger, it will never come too late. Charles H. Spurgeon

This was a special word for me—I need to remember that His answers are never too late and how important it is to know He is not hiding but waiting for the proper time.

Then I read this from Blackabee’s Experiencing God devotional—

If you feel strong in an area of your life, beware! Often your strength, rather than your weakness, hinders you from trusting God. God will bring you to a point of weakness if that is what it takes to bring you to trust in Him. Do not despise your weakness, for it leads you to trust in God's strength.

Another profound word that hit me square between my eyes. If you are like me you probably boast way to much about your strengths and, unlike the Apostle Paul, do not understand the power of your weaknesses. This often comes from a failure to be broken.

Then finally I encountered this excerpt from the writings of Dwight L. Moody—

I was crying all the time that God would fill me with His Spirit. Well, one day, in the city of New York—ah, what a day!—I cannot describe it. I seldom refer to it, it is almost too sacred an experience to name—Paul had an experience of which he never spoke for fourteen years—I can only say that God revealed Himself to me, and I had such an experience of His love that I had to ask Him to stay His hand.

This incredible man’s ministry really began after he had this encounter. I remember crying out after reading this—I WANT THIS LORD.

Well—now I was situated in my chair looking up at the beauty of God’s creation spread out before me. As I pondered its magnificence my eyes pulled back and focused on a large tree that had fallen and was broken in two pieces right in front of me. As I focused upon the broken area of the tree I found that my eyes were then drawn through the brokenness and I again saw the beauty of His creation. It was at that moment God clearly spoke words to me that hit, and hit hard.

My creative purpose lies on the other side of your brokenness

Image-4I remember vividly—as though it were yesterday—the words of my dear friend and pastor, Jack Hayford. It was many years ago that he told me, Vince, you are a marble that God wants to turn into a grape. He reminded me that a marble will not allow itself to be crushed unless the pressure is extremely intense. So it is with you and me oftentimes. A grape will be crushed easily and the resulting juices will then flow and can nourish the lives of others.

This was a profound time for me—one that I would never have experienced unless I had given myself to a protracted time of listening to God and being quiet. It was also a reminder to me of how desperately I desire to see His creative purpose worked out in my life. The take away for me? The only thing standing in the way of my seeing His great purpose fulfilled is my own stubbornness. HOW ABOUT YOU?

VINNIETruly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Matt 18:3 (NIV)

 Last week I attended a silent retreat in the mountains outside of Colorado Springs. While I have experienced a number of occasions where I determined to be quiet before the Lord, I have never gone to a remote site and dedicated myself to solitude at this level of for this amount of time before. For those who know me, being quiet is not one of my natural gifts, especially when it comes to audible communication. It is also difficult for me to quiet my spirit.

In my last letter titled CROSShairs and CROSSroads, I wrote to you about the challenges and excitement we are experiencing in our ministry. It seems that we are having a greater ministry impact than ever in our history while experiencing some of our most challenging times financially. Because of this, I am making every attempt to go deeper with my Lord. I can honestly say that my commitment to getting up at 5:00 every day and spending at least 2-3 hours with Him has been incredible. But I still struggle to hear His voice and sense His presence.

With that said—enter the experience at the silent retreat. My long time friend and pastor, Bill Dodder and I arrived at the site the night before the actual retreat. The next morning, with some brief instruction from our host, we set out into the surrounding woods to spend some quiet time in one of the most beautiful settings imaginable. For most of the morning I continued to experience difficulty quieting my spirit. I cried out to the Lord for just a small glimpse or sense of His presence. I tried to concentrate on hearing Him. NOTHING.

IMG_4243Then, nestled into a rock cliff I opened my bible and read, 1 Kings 3:7 (NIV), Now, Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David. But I am only a little child and do not know how to carry out my duties. From all we know about Solomon at the time of this writing he was NOT a little child. His age was probably between twenty and thirty. So, what was he saying? He was living out what Jesus i
s saying to all of us from Matthew 18:3.

Immediately after reading that verse I heard God whisper to me—Vinnie. I remember experiencing two profound thoughts—first I knew it was Him—and second—my dear mom calling me Vinnie when I was a little boy. As soon as I experienced these thoughts I began to weep. The Lord allowed me to instantly understand what He was trying to say—you need to approach Me as a child. Simple idea? Yes. Difficult? You bet.

We are living in a world where our level of sophistication and perceived knowledge carry more weight and value than our internal character. What Jesus is referring to in the beatitudes are typically not sought after in this world more enamored by form over substance. God is truly impressed by the simple. Why is it so hard for me to get this?

I remember weeping and crying out to God one day, I am so weary of not seeing your miracles. Many of you will remember this story from when Cindy was in the hospital and not expected to live. I no sooner got those words out of my mouth than He spoke. Vince, do you remember the other day when you entered that ICU—I remember this vividly—do you remember that Cindy was still in a coma and had not been awake in weeks? Remember when you came around that corner and you saw her face—her eyes popped open and she gazed at you and got that little smile on her face? Choking back the tears I said, yes Lord I do remember.

Then He said, Vince do you remember the other day when you went in to her room and she was completely limp—no ability to move a muscle? Remember when you put your finger into her closed hand and experienced that ever so gentle squeeze and you saw that little tear roll down her cheek? No longer able to control my own tears I said, yes Lord I do.

Well, He went on to remind me of a couple more occasions like these and then He paused—I think to give me time for what He was about to shout in my ear. He said, Vince, those are my miracles. And when you quit looking for Me in the sensational...you’ll find Me in the simple!

He wants us to look right in front of us—every day—every step-along-the-way for His purpose. He wants us to notice the small things that come our way like that person waiting on you at the restaurant that is not very friendly and consider how God might be viewing them. He wants us to see Him in ALL our circumstances—not just the big or grandiose ones. This idea was huge for me. He wants us to get up every morning asking Him to go before us and help us recognize what He may be doing.

So, what is the takeaway here? I am convinced that we need to understand and apply two very important ideas both surrounding the powerful concept of childlike simplicity. We need to approach Him with a humble and childlike mindset and then look for His response in the simple things that come our way every day.

 

christ-the-intentional-savior   Intentional Christianity 

By:

Vince D’Acchioli 

If only we could pull out our brain and use only our eyes.

Pablo Picasso

While this may sound like a ridiculous notion, at times it seems that the very brain that helped interpret our original vision is often the thing that ends up drawing us off course. It happens everywhere, in our private lives, family, business and yes, even in the church.

The Problem:

While speaking to a group of local pastors recently, I asked them the following question, “Pastor, what is your product?” I could tell that some of them were a little intimidated by my use of business terminology. I explained that my question was not meant to address them personally, but rather the broader aspect of the church. In other words, if the church were a factory, what would its product be? Many of the men had a difficult time articulating a response.

After a few minutes I initiated a second question, “What is Chrysler’s product?” The immediate response was “cars”. I then suggested, “While it is true that Chrysler does make cars, cars are not really their product. As confusion began to break out among the crowd, I continued on, “Chrysler’s ultimate product is transportation. They manufacture different kinds of cars in order to satisfy a wide range of transportation needs.”

The pastors seemed to readily accept this notion. I then restated my first question, “So, using this illustration, what is your product?” After several minutes someone responded, “The product of the local church should be Christ-like people.” What a great answer! We should be producing people whose lives truly reflect the life and love of Jesus Christ. However, aren’t Christ-like people really like the car?

You see, I believe that the product of the church ought to be a godly world. It would follow then, that the product of a local Colorado Springs church ought to be a godly Colorado Springs. I wanted these pastors to see the big picture. Just as Chrysler remembers each time they manufacture a car that their primary purpose is to satisfy and provide transportation needs, we as the church need to recognize that the primary purpose of building up Christ-like people is to draw others to Him and ultimately produce godliness in our communities.

In keeping with this train of thought, whom should we identify as our “customer”? I believe many would suggest that those attending our churches are our customers. This is not the case. Our real “customers” are the lost, and those in attendance are in training to reach them. I believe it is critical for us to understand this paradigm.

Our “customers” are the lost, and those in attendance are in training to reach them.

Standing before this group of pastors, I continued on with a more challenging question, “Most of us would agree that Chrysler is doing a pretty good job in delivering a quality product, now tell me, how do you think the church is doing?” In other words, if the church were an actual factory whose bottom line profit was directly related to the quality of its product, would we be in business? The silence was deafening as I began to complete my discussion with the following illustration:

Let’s assume that Chrysler has gone out and purchased the best raw materials available. At this point, they throw all of this rubber, glass, metal, plastic, etc. into a box on the factory floor and call it a car. Quite obviously, we would never identify this box of parts as a car. Disassembled, those parts could never satisfy our need for transportation. Now I want you to think of an average man or woman sitting in church receiving some of the greatest raw material the world has ever heard. (Not since Jesus walked the planet, have we been equipped with such extraordinary wisdom and knowledge). To think that this individual will step out of that building as a Christ-like person is as ludicrous as believing that the box of parts is a car.

So how should we go about solving this problem? Chrysler figured out something that I believe we, as the Body of Christ need to consider and employ. First, they go to the drawing board and ask themselves some tough questions. What is the finished product supposed to look like? How will it operate and what features will be needed to insure quality transportation results? In answering these questions a vision is captured. Each member of the staff leaves that planning session knowing exactly what it is they want to build.

Next, Chrysler initiates an assembly line. An intricate process is involved in the construction of a vehicle. You cannot put the wheel on before the axle is there, and before the engine can be installed a solid frame must be constructed. It’s interesting that in the academic community we understand the absurdity of teaching advanced calculus to a first grader, yet somehow we have overlooked that concept in our efforts to develop Christ-like people. Just as Chrysler’s work is done part upon part, as Christian leaders our work needs to be accomplished precept-upon-precept.

Building principle upon principle is critical. However, there is one final step that must be taken to insure success. Understanding that a product is only as good as one’s ability to measure or evaluate it, Chrysler’s process goes beyond the assembly line. For them, each vehicle is considered both costly and significant, and therefore, each one must be inspected for quality and reliability. Thus, before leaving the factory Chrysler sends a person with a clipboard to the end of the line. This person is required to give the car a thorough inspection. If the car passes, it is released to the marketplace and offered for transportation. If the car fails inspection, it is sent back to the assembly line for the appropriate adjustments.

It is important to realize where we as the Body of Christ are falling short of this over-all process. Many churches are still struggling to understand what their product should be. Others have a keen knowledge of their product, but have not discovered how to put the assembly line into place. And then there are those who seem to have a firm grasp of the precept-upon-precept approach, yet they are experiencing limited success because they are not measuring their results. Too often church leaders have no idea how John and Mary are really doing in their world.

The Solution:

I believe that the Chrysler illustration suggests at least three major points that must be considered if we are to build a successful ministry:

  • First, we need to catch the vision – Who are our “customers”? What is our true product? What does it look like? Chrysler takes its understanding of what the customer needs, goes to the drawing board and creates a visual image of the product before any actual procedure is put into place.

Point of action: Put together a list of what are the essential characteristics of a Christ-like person. Decide what these individuals need to understand and how they will need to behave in order to impact others.

  • Second, we need to implement an assembly line. Once Chrysler has a clear understanding of what the finished product should look like, it then puts together an elaborate assembly process to lead to the desired result.

Point of action: Now that the characteristics of a Christ-like person have been defined, we must learn to teach them systematically. Develop a process for instruction, and insure that each level is being supervised and guided by a staff member or team.

  • And third, we need to find an accurate means of measuring our effectiveness. Like Chrysler, when all is said and done, we must be able to answer the all-important question, “Is our product doing what it has been designed to do?”

Point of action: We must be creative in developing strategies that allow us to stay more connected to our “flock”. This should be a priority. As pastors or small group/cell leaders we must take seriously the spiritual health and vitality of each member under our care.

Imagine the glorious possibilities if every church and church-related ministry took this kind of approach and began to focus on the visible impact of their teaching. I believe we would see a re-vitalization among the Body of Christ, one that would produce a harvest of fully devoted followers of Christ with a passion for reaching out to a hurting world.

As co-workers in Christ, dedicated to the fulfillment of His business, let’s re-evaluate our process so that we might have a better chance of impacting our world with Godly and effective followers of Christ. Let’s begin to practice Intentional Christianity!

right-and-wrongRomans 1:25-32 (NIV)  They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

Psalm 139:16 (NIV) Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

Two of the most controversial issues in our time are Abortion and Homosexuality. Let me say up front that I do not need the Bible to understand how wrong affirming either of these is. A basic understanding of human anatomy and common sense will suffice. Having said that, it seems like we have lost most, if not all of our common sense and wish to ignore the clear mandate of scripture. We have chosen to do all of this under the guise of honoring our “rights” and in doing so we have moved the argument from its foundational and core issue in order to confuse.

We have lost most, if not all of our common sense and wish to
ignore the clear mandate of scripture

A woman’s “right” to choose and a gay couples “right” to marry are not now, nor have they ever been, the real issue. The real issue and the central questions we are ignoring have to do with abortion and homosexuality. Both of these are clearly defined and spoken to out of God’s word. So, in order to sell these obvious wrongs as ok we have couched the argument as a human rights issue. The subtle idea here is that if we can claim something is a basic human right then it must also be morally right.

I have no problem understanding how our culture has drifted to this place. Anytime you remove God this is the natural trajectory of mankind.   My problem and challenge comes from the realization that the validation of these ideas affects the very essence of our evangelistic efforts. As these wrongs become more broadly accepted by our culture it is becoming more difficult to draw people toward Jesus.

A thirteen-year-old boy, for instance, who may be struggling with sexual identity or same sex attraction, is now hearing two very powerful voices competing for his attention. The world’s voice, which is inclined toward affirming his human feelings, has now become a more powerful tool of our adversary in drawing this boy in the wrong direction—a direction that will ultimately destroy him.

As I know God loves each and every human being no matter who they are, where they come from or what they believe, how do I show that same kind of love and yet maintain an uncompromising position about the volatile issues we are facing?

Let me share some thoughts that may help. Recently as we were traveling in our family car our grandson Hayden, who was in the back seat, said I am sick and tired of people accusing me of stuff I clearly did. It was meant to be funny and get a response—and it did—we had a good laugh. But, there is something a little more profound that I think needs further examination here. Most who know me understand I had a pretty shady background. My wife, Cindy would at times catch me in something I thought was hidden and when she would confront me I would get very angry. It was kinda like—how dare you accuse me.

I am sick and tired of people accusing me of stuff I clearly did

As I look back now I can see a correlation between my internal awareness that I was wrong and my level of anger in response. I have a theory—I could be wrong here but follow me please. I believe every human being has within them a sense—a conscience—an awareness that there is a God-made natural order. I am also convinced that most, perhaps not all, people who have bought into a lie that is contrary to that order know it and that this awareness can contribute to some inappropriate anger.

I am persuaded that those who believe that abortion and homosexual behavior is ok—deep within them struggle with their own conclusions. If this is true that could account for some of the intense anger that seems to flow from people who are believing or acting out a lie. A word of caution here—this works both ways. There are some people who are haters and true bigots who also display anger and I might suggest that they too are responding out of a recognition that their hearts are not right. Hatred and bigotry are no more a part of God’s natural order than abortion or homosexual behavior.

So, back to our question—how do I show my love and not compromise my position or beliefs?  Here are some points to consider:

  1. The Bible says, greater is He that is in you then he that is in the world. We must recognize this important truth and allow it to invest itself in us in a way that removes all fear, doubt, confusion and anger about where we are as a nation.
  2. We must get serious about taking our concerns to God in prayer—especially as we seek to ask people to consider Jesus. Pray all the time—before you pick up the phone—meet that person you are trying to persuade—even before you read that controversial article, in order to gain God’s perspective.
  3. If there is any truth in the idea that people have a natural built-in conscience regarding what is right and wrong—NEVER-NEVER—tell them that. Just pray that God waters their conscience with the life-giving presence of His Holy Spirit. Only through the Spirit of God will people be persuaded.
  4. Understand that weak-kneed, lukewarm Christians will not survive in the world that is coming. Prepare for persecution and know that the only way you will move from a victim to a victor is through God’s power in your life.
  5. Finally, continually allow the Holy Spirit to search you in the areas of your life that need adjusting—I would suggest that your conscience is already informing you of those things that need to be addressed.

cfb6ec42-a6b4-4493-867c-29b39499865dAn Article by Vince D'Acchioli

As a God loving, bible believing, follower of Christ, I have no trouble understanding that homosexual behavior is a sin. But here is the catch—I am a God loving, bible believing, follower of Christ. I have come out of a life of darkness, done many very bad things, went on a journey to discover that my only hope was God and that ultimately turned my life around.

Because I believe in the inerrancy of scripture I have a context to work from. The problem today exists in large part as a result of the absence of a Biblical worldview—so here is the scenario:

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Don't you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people-none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God. Some of you were once like that. But you were cleansed; you were made holy; you were made right with God by calling on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. (NLT)

What do I do with the above verse, and a myriad of others, that suggest grave consequences for my actions? Here are my options:

  • I believe it is true, want the promise of eternal life in God’s kingdom and adjust my life accordingly
  • I believe in the existence of a god but cannot believe he would be so unloving and harsh, therefore I choose to discount the authority of the written Word (following a god I want instead of the God who IS)
  • I do not believe in the existence of god so therefore non of this means anything to me—I can do as I please and I decide what is right and wrong 

With a few other subtle twists those are really my main options. So here is the problem we are facing today as true followers of the God who IS. We live in a democracy—God has given us free will, which allows me to be the ultimate choice maker. People, because of our sin nature—without a clear understanding of God, will always give into the nature within them. 

So, in a democracy we “the people” are guided by the will of the masses—as the collective worldview changes so do our laws and attitudes about sin—nothing about what is happening in our nation today should surprise us given the observable absence of any effort to develop or even talk about a Godly perspective on life.

Because of the deep sin in my own past, and some I still struggle with, I am certainly not the one who should be judging here—However—I do know the Person who ultimately will. Having said that let me talk to you about an experience I had in processing the recent Supreme Court decision the other day while in prayer.

As I was having my quiet time with Him on the day our court decided on affirming Gay marriage as a constitutional right, I was overcome with emotion. It began with the predictable feelings of disbelief with a mixture of anger and resentment. Then, the Lord by His Spirit quickly helped me turn a corner by reminding me of my responsibility as a communicator of His Gospel. 

He reminded me of the awesome privilege those of us who communicate His Word have, but also the importance of seeking Him to make sure we get it right—in other words—are we really communicating His heart about the issues we face? 

So, here is the train of thought He directed me through. I felt strongly that God wanted all of us to know His incredible love for everyone—even those who were demonstrating and celebrating this important decision as a breakthrough carrying signs saying love wins. They honestly believe this is a just cause and are driven by there own perspective of what is right.

Then He lovingly suggested that the big issue is really about Him and the biggest question anyone could come to terms with, God…No God—it all boils down to the idea that God is real or He is not. If we truly understand this dynamic it will ultimately change our attitude toward our culture to be better aligned with our loving heavenly Father.

So follow the logic here with me—if God is real than which god is he? We have a plethora of organized religions who have different gods all purporting to be the one and only true god. They all have their books, documents and history to support their belief. As Christians, we believe that Jesus is the one and only Lord and we also have our own evidence largely embodied in the Biblical record.

When we begin to understand this, recognize that a truly Biblical worldview is becoming harder to find given the absence of Christian teaching and recognize that everyone has a worldview shaped by their own experience, we can better understand why we are where we are as a nation. Having said that—if we as true followers of the one and only God want to have the proper perspective we must look to what Jesus said while on the cross, Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.

In this case, a growing demographic of people in our own nation do not have a Biblical worldview. There view is driven by the nature of man…not the nature of our God. Throughout history we see those two natures in sharp contrast. The nature of man ALWAYS gives in to what he desires and feels is best. Without any Godly context it will always follow the same self-destructive pattern. 

So please hear me on this—as Christians we are not to be upset, angry or even surprised. Rather, we should have the same heart Jesus has in recognizing the lost as precious children of His desperately needing a Redeemer. The Lord reminded me that marriage was ordained by Him as a spiritual covenant. The world does not go there—it recognizes the legal aspects of marriage and bestows certain rights on these unions to be understood by those living in a secular society. 

What this court did was simply uphold what seemed right and just, given their perspective and the absence of any spiritual understanding of the issue before God. By the time God finished leading me down this pathway of thinking my attitude began to shift. He actually challenged me to shift my focus to being more concerned about my contribution to how we got here in the first place.

I am convinced He wants all of us to STOP judging and even talking about His judgment falling down upon us as though we are somehow His ambassadors of doom and gloom. God is the ultimate judge of course and He will judge in His time. He struck me with a strong sense of the importance of our focusing our judgment upon ourselves. The big question for us Christians is, what have we done to contribute to the absence of a biblical worldview in our nation?

Here is the bottom line, we must respond but how we respond is critical. For the most part, I do not think we are doing a very responsible job of truly reflecting His heart right now. In the list below I want to share some practical things for you to consider moving forward, especially as we communicate to our children and grandchildren what has just happened—they are going to need the right perspective:

  • Develop an understanding of how differing worldviews are developed and their potential influence upon our culture
  • Understand the importance of, and determine to develop an intimate relationship with God—it is the only way you will have His perspective
  • Practice loving people—not judging them
  • Refrain from talking about God’s judgment and retribution—no one cares as the world has already discounted our message
  • Be more concerned about how God will judge us as a result of our own failure to impact our culture
  • Ask God to help you shape a proper and sensitive response when asked your opinion about this matter
  • Help to gently correct and admonish other Christians who are not communicating a responsible and loving message

 

25921167An Article By Vince D'Acchioli

God is real—He lives in heaven and He has an opinion! Guess whose opinion don’t count.

 Some time ago I received a phone call from a woman conducting a public opinion poll. Telling me that my opinion mattered, she suggested that it would go into a data bank where it would be taken into consideration by important people and organizations who would often make big decisions based upon the information I give them.

I asked her what if my opinion is uninformed and not based upon any facts or knowledge about the issue at all—but more on how I might feel about the matter or what I may have heard?

She still insisted that it was important to collect the information. So, I said to her, let me make sure I understand what you are telling me—you are saying that my opinion, which may be totally based upon air, with no real objective knowledge about the subject, will be used to make important decisions that will affect our very future?  I asked her if she understood how ridiculous this was? She no longer wanted to talk to me.

You are saying that my opinion, which may be totally based upon air, with no real objective knowledge about the subject, will be used to make important decisions that will affect our very future?

My friend, make no mistake—this is the world we now live in. I just posted the following on my Facebook page, Too much information...too little patience = too many uninformed opinions. We are now moving into the age of IGNORANCE. It is ironic isn’t it? We have more information than in all of human history, yet in many ways the availability of all of this data has somehow caused us to be less patient. We call it overload and are not willing to take the time necessary to develop informed opinions.

Too much information...too little patience = too many uninformed opinions. We are now moving into the age of IGNORANCE

Sadly we have evolved into a culture that no longer cares about objective facts and lacks patience and the ability to apply critical thought. We now go on what we feel or believe to be true driven by popular notions, spin and marketplace manipulation of the masses. We gather data that already leans in the direction or our pre-conceived ideas, and then go with it. We are actually at a place where even the notion of objective truth is met with disdain.

Even though history teaches us that when mankind tries to make up the rules as we go it always leads to failure—we do not learn. So, you pick the hot button subject—abortion, the death penalty, the acceptance of homosexuality and gender distortion, global warming, the list is never ending. Decisions about these and a myriad of other important issues are being made based upon a high percentage of uninformed public opinion driven by special interest marketing strategies. 

I want to suggest here that many who call ourselves Christian have fallen into the same trap. Just look around and see all of the new thinking out there being driven by popular opinion. Some of our most influential Christian leaders are finding creative ways to re-interpret the Bible in order to line up with the more “open and tolerant” nature of our culture.

In what is supposed to be the most enlightened era, with access to more information than any time in history, we are the most uninformed and ignorant generation to date. Don’t believe it?—go on to any college campus and start asking students questions about important matters and then ask them how they reached their conclusions. 

In what is supposed to be the most enlightened era, with access to more information than any time in history, we are the most uninformed and ignorant generation to date

As followers of Christ let us strive to be examples of people who do not succumb to this trap—we can be informed and not give way to cheap gimmicks and fine sounding arguments that attempt to sway. I would like to suggest some practical things to consider:

  • When someone sends you something they read on the internet, don't believe it until you diligently check it out.
  • Become an informed voter—do not just blindly follow your political leanings without researching both sides of an issue.
  • When using God’s word to defend a position make sure you know all the appropriate references and how to accurately interpret them.
  • Resist giving uninformed opinions or feelings about anything—at least let people know you will study the issue and get back to them.
  • Display patience with people who may not have the same opinion as you.
  • Pray for Godly insight when forming a position on any important issue—remember there are always two sides to consider.

A challenge to us all would be to refrain from offering an opinion until you can adequately state the opposing viewpoint.

God IS NOT concerned about the condition of our nation
...we are.

God IS concerned about the condition of His people
...we are not.

While into a protracted time of prayer recently God gave me the above ideas and I shared them on my Facebook page. I do not think I have ever had the kind of positive response from anything I ever posted before. I am not sure why.

I have written a lot lately about the need to better understand the importance of prayer. Much of that has been motivated by a heightened awareness of how far our nation has drifted from our original Christian inspired foundation. The most obvious newsworthy event involving an important Supreme Court decision about gay marriage stands as a powerful indicator of just how far we have drifted.

So, as you might expect, there is now an urgent call to prayer for our country—and rightfully so. I want to say up front that I not only believe we must be in prayer but am one who is actively calling for it, especially among men in America. Having said that, I do believe we have a much deeper problem demonstrated by the very idea that we are making this call to prayer now.

I want to say up front that I not only believe we must be in prayer but am one who is actively calling for it, especially among men in America.

Let me ask you a question. Do you really believe God is wringing His hands about this Supreme Court decision? I hope you said NO. I believe God is more concerned about the deterioration of an intimate relationship with His people, you and I, and if that relationship were right we might not have a Supreme Court taking up the question at all.

Our tendency has been to go to a call to prayer only when significant issues pop up and it becomes a band aid approach to something that could have been prevented with on-going prayer and taking our relationship with our God seriously in the first place. We have lost our way as a nation because we have lost our way with God. When viewed in this context we should not be surprised or shocked.

This brings me to some ideas on how we should be thinking about our future. We need to stop whining about our circumstances and take a thoughtful look at how we got here. We need to examine why God’s chosen instrument for transforming culture, (His church) has failed. Then we need to go back to Him with a genuine spirit of repentance and seek His guidance on how to turn it around. Dear one—I do not think this is complicated. It does not take a very mature Christian to ascertain what we need to do to get back on track.

In recent months I have been sensing three things that I believe are weighing heavily upon our Lord. First, I do believe He is concerned about the condition of you and I, His followers. He is desperate for an intimate relationship with us and we are either unwilling or unable to develop one. Next, I am sensing His heartache over the lack of unity in the Body of Christ. It seems we spend more time disagreeing on nonsense issues and theological positions than seeking Jesus’ directive to become one.

And finally, I am sensing He really does want to see a concerted effort on our part to go to Him in prayer. He is not looking for us to click on a checkbox and promise to pray as much as making sure we understand what prayer really looks like. Last month I wrote to you breaking down perhaps the best scripture verses on prayer found in 2 Chronicles. If you did not read that you can find it on our site or click here.

So what is the take-away here? It is simply this—all of us who consider ourselves Christians have to up our game. We must get serious about our relationship with God if we ever expect His life and power to flow through us and make a difference. For those of us in church leadership—we must have the courage to face the facts—look at what we have been doing—and make the necessary adjustments in order to produce what God is looking for. This is not a time for self-abasement—it is a time for seeking Him for supernatural wisdom and discernment.

This is not a time for self-abasement - it is a time for seeking Him for supernatural wisdom and discernment.

Dear ones please hear me—in our nation today Christianity is being shaken to its very core and maybe that’s a good thing. The day is quickly coming when many of our churches and Christian institutions may be forced to close their doors. Often throughout history those are the times when the real church emerges with power and glory.

Our focus and subsequent battle must not be centered on these probabilities but rather on what God is calling US to do. We must remember that He is still on the throne and in the end we have nothing to fear.

If we fail to understand these things and continue in the direction we are going - well - someone once said, if you keep on doing what you’re doing...you will end up with more of what you got. I don’t know about you but I do not think we can afford more of what we got.

Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.Joshua 1:8 NIV

If you fully obey the LORD your God and carefully keep all his commands that I am giving you today, The Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the world.Deuteronomy 28:1

If...Then
by Vince D'Acchioli

Two of the most powerful words found in God's Word are if and then. When discovered in the right context they indicate God's promises resulting from man's obedience. These two words are found in this way in many places throughout the Bible but nowhere are they more profound then in 2 Chronicles. Read it with me please:

If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, Then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14 (NIV)

If My people
The word If in this context is a conjunction introducing a conditional clause - what follows is a clear list of conditions that, if met, will lead to a promised end. My people is a clear indication that God through this writer is speaking to those He would call His followers.

Called by My name
The meaning of called here would indicate that we, as His people, have a calling upon our lives. I am persuaded that our universal calling is, and always has been, to advance His kingdom on planet earth. The statement called by My name is further proof that this verse is directed only toward those who are followers of Christ.

Will humble themselves
This is perhaps the most important statement in the verse. It is interesting to note that the call to humble themselves comes before the call to actually pray. What does this mean? Tyron Edwards (an American theologian from the 1800s) perhaps said it best: Humility is not an abject, groveling, self-despising spirit; it is but a right estimate of ourselves as God sees us.

And pray
While the word pray should be understood by most Christians, sadly it is often misunderstood. There has been a lot written about prayer, however our best source is Jesus Himself as He has taught us in His Word. To acknowledge God, ask for specific needs and give thanks.

And seek My face
In my Strong's Concordance for 2 Chron. 7:14, the Hebrew for seek is abash #1245- "to search out (by any method), as in worship or prayer. “Presence” is a common translation of the Hebrew word face. For me this is one of the most important statements in the verse and is a natural follow on to the call for humility. We are called to worship God - to seek His presence. In my walk with Him I can honestly report that experiencing His presence is directly tied to my reaching a place of utter humility before Him.

And turn from their wicked ways
This may be the most critical IF condition on two fronts. First for most of us, especially us men, obedience to God's Word, which is clearly what is being asked for here, is very challenging. But second, we need to understand the relationship between obedience and power. James 5:16 says, The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. In this context righteousness means right standing before God. It carries with it the importance of true repentance. Could it be that our not seeing God more clearly intervening in the affairs of our nation has to do with our lack of spiritual depth stemming from our failure to obey?

Then I will hear - forgive - heal.
So here is the best part. The part where God promises to act as a direct result of our meeting His conditions. Sadly, it is also the part we focus upon without clearly recognizing the price He is calling us to pay to receive it.

Conclusion:
Dear friends, we have never been more desperate to hear God, receive His forgiveness and experience His healing in our land (nation). I am convinced that while we understand the message wrapped up in Ephesians 6:12 we continue to try to win the battle through human engineering oftentimes seen in well meaning programs, political posturing and maneuvering. Please read this verse with me and really meditate on what is being said:

Ephesians 6:12 (NIV) For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

The message is clear - evil and dark places are all around us. The struggle against these forces will never be overcome using conventional, human engineered methods. Prayer is the answer but a comprehensive understanding of what is required of the believer who goes to Him in prayer is critical. My question to all of us - while we understand and deeply seek after the promise, how are we doing in meeting ALL of the conditions?

Finally dear ones remember this promise:

The Lord is at hand. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:5-7

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2 Chronicles 7:14 (NIV) If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, THEN will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.

At no time in the history of our nation have we been more desperate for God’s intervention. The spiritual and moral decline we are experiencing, while alarming, points to our need to turn our hearts toward the only one and true redeemer, Jesus Christ. Over the last several decades, there has been a flurry of specialized programs and events launched to bring about spiritual transformation. Many of these efforts, though well intended, have not brought about a sustained revival among men. I believe that God is calling men in America to pray fervently. I am also convinced that this sacrificial commitment is central to experiencing a sustained spiritual awakening in our nation.

I believe that God is calling men in America to pray fervently. I am also convinced that this sacrificial commitment is central to experiencing a sustained spiritual awakening in our nation.

Having spent the better part of the last twenty years involved in ministry to men I can honestly say that it has been both rewarding and frustrating. Rewarding in the sense that I have personally sensed a tremendous move of God in bringing men into events where they have been exposed to the wonderful truth of God’s Word. Frustrating however from the standpoint of not seeing a sustained revival among men in our nation.

I am convinced that our tendency toward event driven strategies has caused us to overlook their lack of power to produce long-term life-change. In many ways we have been “eventing” men to death. As a nation we are now experiencing the result of a kind of superficial Christianity that is not helping men understand the need for going deeper in their walk with Jesus.

In short - we will never see a spiritual awakening in this nation unless righteous men are fervently praying.

James 5:16 The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

So, what is the answer? We must recognize where we are, honestly own the mistakes of the past and determine to build men who are spiritually deep. Can you imagine what could happen if we could see Dick Simmons vision of one million men in America rising early every day to pray for our nation? Dear friends, this is no longer an option - it is critical toward seeing God’s kingdom advanced in our nation in our day.

On a personal note I had the pleasure of having breakfast with my dear friend Bill McCartney the other day. We talked about all of this and he could not agree more with the need to help men go deeper and get them praying. I had him share something very special for my men at OTI by recording it on my phone. You can click the image on the top right of this TargetPoint to watch.

In essence this coach and founder of Promise Keepers is now going around the country calling men to three non-negotiables - he says that ever day men need to be searched, fed and led. We need to allow God to search us every day and confess the sin that is in our life. We need to be fed every day by the Word of God and we need to be daily led by the Holy Spirit. This is the kind of man whose daily prayer will availeth much.

As I close this TargetPoint I want to ask all of you who are reading this to do two things: First, and most important, please make a commitment to pray for this idea every day. Pray that there will be a deep and sustained revival among men in America. And second, please consider passing this plea to others you know and encourage the same.

We must recognize that our well-intentioned human efforts to bring about transformation have fallen short in part because of our focus on programs and events. We also need to recognize where this battle needs to be fought.

Ephesians 6:12 (NIV) For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

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The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul... Psalm 23 NKJV

Our Sunday school class is currently going through the book of Nehemiah. The sessions are reminding Cindy and me of a time when we sat under Pastor Jack Hayford and his incredible teaching titled The Nehemiah series...Restoring The Walls. Most people who have followed this man would say this series was probably one of his signature teachings of all time.

Pastor Jack would say that Nehemiah represents a “type” or “picture” of the Holy Spirit. In fact the name Nehemiah translated in Hebrew means The Comfort of God. Jesus said He would be sending the Holy Spirit or Comforter. In the above Psalm it talks about God, by His Spirit, restoring our soul. Pastor Jack suggests that the walls Nehemiah was desirous of rebuilding represent our soul and the temple represents our spirit.

Hebrews 4:12 (NKJV) For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit...

In the above verse the Bible talks about the division of soul and spirit—let’s explore this for a moment. In those days the Spirit of God was in the temple. This is analogous to the New Testament believer allowing the Lord into their life, literally God’s Spirit in us. Remember that in the old covenant God would reside in a physical place—the good news for us happened when Jesus gave His life and the temple curtain was torn allowing access from that time forward for God’s Spirit to literally be in us. We are now the temple of God.

The good news for us happened when Jesus gave His life and the temple curtain was torn allowing access from that time forward for God’s Spirit to literally be in us.

The soul, on the other hand is best defined as our intellect, our emotions and our will. Our intellect represents our thoughts, our emotions represent our feelings and our will is typically influenced by a combination of those, leading to our actions.

At OTI we have a vision for shaping men who are FULLY ALIVE...Becoming The Man God Intended. When we invite the Lord into our life we are ALIVE but becoming the Man God Intended has to do with the condition of our soul, our walls. Nehemiah knew that the Spirit of God was in that temple but because the walls were down there was little or no protection from an enemy that wanted to destroy their worship which would affect their identity, relationship with God and their destiny.

The same is true of us. When we allow Jesus to be Lord of our lives we are ALIVE at our core. However, when our soul is not built up and we allow in such things as fear, doubt, various kinds of sin that are not dealt with, it gives our enemy access to interrupting that important connection with the Spirit of God in us and destroys our worship. The result—our identity, relationship with Him and destiny are impacted.

The Holy Spirit, just like Nehemiah, wants to restore and build up the broken down places in our souls so that we have protection against the attacks of the enemy. The strong message for all of us is—the importance of God, by His Spirit, to have His way in the life of the believer. The ability of His Spirit to work in us the way He fully intends is hindered often by the ways we allow the “walls” of our life to be compromised which gives access to the enemy.

As I ponder what Nehemiah must have felt regarding the condition of this city in his time the scripture clearly reports the intense sadness and heartache he endured. I want to suggest here that if he were alive today witnessing the condition of our kingdom—the United States of America and how broken we have become—his feelings would be even more intense.

Dear ones please here me—as a nation our walls are down—many would say destroyed beyond repair. Could it be that all of this happened as the result of us—God’s people—not taking proper care of the walls in our own life? Have we allowed our souls to deteriorate to the point that we are hindering the Spirit of God having His way in us? Could it be that our national soul is simply a reflection of the collective soul of His people?

As a nation our walls are down—
many would say destroyed beyond repair

I long for a Nehemiah in our day. We are in desperate need for this kind of spiritual leadership in order to turn our people and ultimately our great nation back to worshipping the one true God, the King of kings and Lord of lords.

I am persuaded that Nehemiah understood the central place that worship held in gaining victory over his enemies and the successful completion of that wall. (See 2 Chron. 20:21-22) The same holds true today for you and me—if we are to be successful in defeating our enemy and see our souls restored we MUST understand the importance of worshipping our Lord.

Where is Nehemiah when we need him? He is here—all around us in the form of God’s Holy Spirit. The real question is, will you let Him have His way in you?

When God is the center of a kingdom or a city, He makes it strong “like Mount Zion, which cannot be shaken” (Ps 125:1). And when God is the center of a soul, although disasters may crowd in on all sides and roar like the waves of the sea, there is a constant calm within. The world can neither give nor take away this kind of peace. What is it that causes people to shake like leaves today at the first hint of danger? It is simply the lack of God living in their soul, and having the world in their hearts instead. –R. Leighton

In closing, I would like to recommend some helpful resources regarding this theme:

Here is a link to Rebuilding The Real You by Jack Hayford.

Each of the restored gates represent something special. Here is an outline: https://www.jesusplusnothing.com/studies/online/nehem3.htm

If you are dealing with issues from your past that are causing your soul to be compromised here are four powerful sessions from our Men On Target Curriculum you might find useful: Links to our series on Fear, Anger, Unforgiveness and Guilt (12 minutes each)

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"A Deeply Personal Testimony"
by Vince D’Acchioli

All a man’s ways seem innocent to him, but motives are weighed by the Lord. Proverbs 16:2 (NIV)

A couple of months ago I made a commitment to my OTI men’s group here in Colorado Springs that I was going to get up every day at 5:00 AM from now on in order to spend 2-3 hours with the Lord. This decision was born out of a conviction that, while I find it easy to speak on the subject of having an intimate relationship with God, I was not experiencing personally the intimacy I truly desired.

I am pleased to report that my track record here has been pretty good. I am truly experiencing His presence in ways I never imagined. However, a couple of weeks ago as I was praying I asked God a question. Lord, am I becoming the man you intended? As most of you know, this is the mantra for OTI. Our ultimate goal is to become the man God intended. The short answer from God to me was NO.

I am truly experiencing His presence in ways I never imagined.

Now I knew that had to be God—there is no way I would have said that to myself. What He went on to impress to me has to do with a challenge in the area of humility and selflessness. I sensed that He was affirming and even pleased with my decisions and actions to get closer to Him but He was also letting me know that I really needed to focus on these areas. Two areas I, and many men, struggle with.

For me this was a major spiritual shot across the bow—I cannot continue to contribute to the hypocrisy that would allow me to teach on something I myself do not have under control. The Bible teaches us to consider others better than ourselves and to not think of ourselves more highly than we ought. As easy as it may be for those words to roll off our lips it is very difficult to live them. We have been raised in a culture that actually honors the opposite.

It was at this moment that I remembered a quote from an old book by Dr Larry Crabb titled The Marriage Builder. To this day I believe this is one of the best books on marriage I have ever read. In the book Larry Crabb says, (I am paraphrasing here) in all human interaction we are doing one of two things…we are either ministering or manipulating. We are either interested in truly serving with no self-interest in mind—or—attempting to get something for ourselves. I remember reading that and thinking, come on—it can’t be that simple.

The more I thought about it the more convinced I became that it really is that simple and it all goes to the heart and begs the big question WHAT IS MY MOTIVE? OK, now please tune in here because this is a huge idea. I am convinced that our ability to examine our motives in order to determine whether we are inclined toward ministry or manipulation is crucial to our witness for Jesus and the ultimate advancement of His kingdom. People know the difference.

OK, now please tune in here because this is a huge idea. I am convinced that our ability to examine our motives in order to determine whether we are inclined toward ministry or manipulation is crucial to our witness for Jesus and the ultimate advancement of His kingdom.

It was at this moment that I began to evaluate my motives for all that I could remember doing over the last couple of weeks. Whether it was simply relating to my wife, engaging in a meeting with someone, sending out an email or just planning anything, I asked the question, what was my motive? I was deeply convicted that my track record on the scale of ministry vs. manipulation was very poor.

I remember a conversation I had recently with my friend Bill McCartney, founder of Promise Keepers, where he told me that everywhere he goes and speaks these days he is encouraging men that every day they need to be searched, fed and led. We need to ask God to search our hearts to make sure there is nothing in there by way of self-serving motivations, un-forgiveness or bitterness, etc. Then we need to be fed by His Word and led by the Holy Spirit. Every day.

Now, I am making a commitment every day to ask God to search me—to help me be sure that in everything I do my motive is to serve and minister and not manipulate. On a very personal note—I have had numerous occasions to write to and meet with various people since this revelation. As I asked myself the question, what is my motive, I was challenged in many of these situations to literally change gears.

Now, I am making a commitment every day to ask God to search me.

Most of my inclination toward manipulation is designed to be self-serving, I believe this is the case with so many Christians these days. I have found that every time I leave my agenda behind and truly just love and minister to those I encounter, it not only feels wonderful, but I find that God really shows up in ways I would never have imagined.

Below is a picture of a little tool I ordered for myself that is helping me immensely. It is a simple bracelet that I wear every day—it never comes off. I look at it all the time and it challenges me throughout my normal daily routine to remember this important question. I have just ordered a bunch for the men here at OTI and would encourage you to consider getting one if this message resonates with you.

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You can order them on line yourself—they are very inexpensive, or I would be happy to mail one to you if you send me your address. Just email me at vince@otm.co.

NOTE: The Lord also prompted me to change my message at OTI last week and deal with this subject—the message is Live-Streamed and archived. If you want to view the brief session click here and advance to about the 10-minute mark.

I hope this message has blessed, but more importantly, challenged you. Can you imagine what it would be like if all of us asked this question before we engage others? Maybe we need to encourage men across North America to begin wearing these bracelets—remember the WWJD?

Don't be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourself. Don't think only about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and what they are doing. Philippians 2:3-4 (NLT)